Aren’t lesbian couples gay couples or am I missing something here?

While gay is a catch all it also tends to be used specifically for male/male couples as well because there isn't a term for gay male couples like there is for gay female couples. Hell, up until shockingly recently there wasn't even a flag for gay men. For everyone else that the rainbow is supposed to cover but nothing specifically for gay men.

Interesting, TIL. Thanks for the explanation.

All changelings are gender fluid within the Great Link.

From what I can remember from the lore, changelings have different personalities for each of their 'faces', and thus person A face A would be in a relationship with person B face B, and would not be attracted to person B *face C* or any other identities that being said, partners whose love for each other trancends identity would be a really sweet story

So she's right

Changeling couple at the bar, not looking for a third but each one deciding what the other should look like that night. Is this anything?

A cishet trying to comprehend queerness

Happy to help him whatever weird way I can.

They could be pansexual polyamorus(sp?) changelings that are all attracted to each other.

that'd just be, like, mundane irl polyamory. Except I assume they wouldn't need as big of a bed.

Until it gets to polyamorus drama, and one decides to break up or get jealous of another one.

Women got Lesbos, men should get a Greek island as well.

Oh my god. They *have* do a show with a changeling crewmate or two. Please.

But who's the changeling in the relationship and who's the changeling

Gotta be Andros.

Did you not see DS9? The only bed big enough for a changing polycle^a^ is a **river** bed a. I think that's the right term and I only meant in jest for the riverbed punchline. If it's not please let me know and I will edit appropriately.

Nah, too much overlap with androgynous

DS9 does have such an episode. In "Rejoined", Jadzia Dax meets Lerana Kahn and it is revealed that their past symbiotes were married to each other. Their love to each other still lingers, despite the fact that they are both female now.

This is just non-binary, isn't it?