@apophis @futurebird It's not a time when the representatives of cis manhood are speaking well for the side.

I publicly advertise as he/him because in practice that's what I use, I present as very nerdy-masc, and I want to normalize the practice for the sake of people who care about it more; but honestly, I am getting gender apathetic in such a way that if someone refers to me as "they" or "she" I'm not gonna be steamed about it. Unless it's "she" as an insult; then the fact that they consider that an insult is the problem.