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Why do schools have dances?

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  • eswillwalkerE eswillwalker

    @futurebird Is the in-school email network limited to inside school? We have a university email network (actually, it’s gmail, but with the school edu handle), and everyone has an identifiable name, but it connects to the wider web. One thing I think that’s been specific to social media is that accounts can be “anonymous.” So, when you described an in-house social media network, I didn’t think through the possibility that accounts would never be anonymous. Anonymous accounts make the admin more responsible because blame cannot be assigned to anonymous individuals.

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    @ELS

    School email is just regular email although out-of-school incoming mail is blocked by a whitelist that includes parents and a few others.

    No "anonymous" accounts is part of the "boring school party" aspect.

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    • myrmepropagandistF myrmepropagandist

      I've had people hear this idea scoff saying "teens will never use it" I don't think this is true. They ALL come to the dances, even though they are "so boring" -- and I think at some level they would feel better having a safer place to express themselves in photos, videos and writing for each other without every creep on the internet looking in on it.

      Will some teens still find internet "after parties" Yes.

      But right now we are basically saying you can go to the afterparty or NOTHING.

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      > They ALL come to the dances

      I didn't. Most dances I absolutely refused to participate in, and the one or two that I didn't I mostly stayed on the bleachers away from everyone.

      And of course the one that I *did* go to someone wound up getting seriously injured / (killed?). So there was that.
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        > They ALL come to the dances

        I didn't. Most dances I absolutely refused to participate in, and the one or two that I didn't I mostly stayed on the bleachers away from everyone.

        And of course the one that I *did* go to someone wound up getting seriously injured / (killed?). So there was that.
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        @jeffcliff

        I guess I'm an unlikely champion of the school dance considering I hated the whole concept as a kid, only went to one under duress (it was too loud) and never went again.

        I get a different perspective as a teacher and hope that we've encouraged something better than what I was exposed to when I was younger (which to be fair wasn't as bad as it could have been, even in 1997 I somehow was at a school that didn't mandate )

        That all of the students show up I take as a good sign.

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        • myrmepropagandistF myrmepropagandist

          @jeffcliff

          I guess I'm an unlikely champion of the school dance considering I hated the whole concept as a kid, only went to one under duress (it was too loud) and never went again.

          I get a different perspective as a teacher and hope that we've encouraged something better than what I was exposed to when I was younger (which to be fair wasn't as bad as it could have been, even in 1997 I somehow was at a school that didn't mandate )

          That all of the students show up I take as a good sign.

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          @jeffcliff

          My mom and dad, experienced a very different kind of school dance in the 1960s. It was very focused on straight dating cosplay I guess?

          There were a billion rules about buying flowers for a girl and if you could pick her up in your horrible car.

          These things evolve.

          That said. I liked knowing I COULD go to the school dance and not going more than I'd like if all the parties were the kind where I wouldn't be invited.

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          • myrmepropagandistF myrmepropagandist

            I think that schools should take on this role.

            You could have a server for a school with mastodon, but not connected to the rest of the fedi, you could network with similar schools. Just like at the school dance the teachers are around so there are limits to how it's used.

            Teens could post about their soccer games, advertise their clubs, make jokes, practice using the medium wisely.

            When teens post to social media they care about their friends at school seeing the post most. 4/

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            @futurebird This is especially poignant with the just-started, boneheaded #SocialMediaBan here in #Australia. And there is nothing in the legislation that would stop it AFAIK, unless and until they were to try to add mastodon to the list of proscribed sites, and as it isn’t a site I don’t really see how that could even work. The rules are way too stupidly written to ban a federation protocol.

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              @futurebird This is especially poignant with the just-started, boneheaded #SocialMediaBan here in #Australia. And there is nothing in the legislation that would stop it AFAIK, unless and until they were to try to add mastodon to the list of proscribed sites, and as it isn’t a site I don’t really see how that could even work. The rules are way too stupidly written to ban a federation protocol.

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              @whybird

              That policy sounds like the adults are just plugging their ears.

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              • myrmepropagandistF myrmepropagandist

                @DanielMReck

                I would think hosting dances would have a lot more "liabilities"

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                @futurebird That's because you're sensible.

                Dances do not typically create a perfect digital record of everything that happens at them, and social media platforms typically do. That's great for people investigating actual wrongdoing, but it also makes a gold mine of innocent content to be used by profit-seeking lawyers and disingenuous adults to intimidate, harass, and legally destroy whatever school tried to implement such a platform.

                There's also those generally-ignored child privacy laws.

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                • Daniel M. ReckD Daniel M. Reck

                  @futurebird That's because you're sensible.

                  Dances do not typically create a perfect digital record of everything that happens at them, and social media platforms typically do. That's great for people investigating actual wrongdoing, but it also makes a gold mine of innocent content to be used by profit-seeking lawyers and disingenuous adults to intimidate, harass, and legally destroy whatever school tried to implement such a platform.

                  There's also those generally-ignored child privacy laws.

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                  @DanielMReck

                  The school email, gchat, google classroom and websites already do that.

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                  • myrmepropagandistF myrmepropagandist

                    I've had people hear this idea scoff saying "teens will never use it" I don't think this is true. They ALL come to the dances, even though they are "so boring" -- and I think at some level they would feel better having a safer place to express themselves in photos, videos and writing for each other without every creep on the internet looking in on it.

                    Will some teens still find internet "after parties" Yes.

                    But right now we are basically saying you can go to the afterparty or NOTHING.

                    5/5

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                    @futurebird yes! i've been thinking a lot about a related question:

                    now that more and more of our world is experienced through personal devices like smartphones and laptops, how do we gradually include children and youths in our adult world?

                    for instance: growing up there were newspapers on the table every day, and LP's on the shelf. pieces of a larger shared reality it was possible to learn from.

                    and then, of course, perhaps reject - but after at least exploring it for a bit.

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                    • Bjørn StærkB Bjørn Stærk

                      @futurebird yes! i've been thinking a lot about a related question:

                      now that more and more of our world is experienced through personal devices like smartphones and laptops, how do we gradually include children and youths in our adult world?

                      for instance: growing up there were newspapers on the table every day, and LP's on the shelf. pieces of a larger shared reality it was possible to learn from.

                      and then, of course, perhaps reject - but after at least exploring it for a bit.

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                      @futurebird our role as adults is to invite the kids into our world in a gentle way, show them around a bit, introduce them to our reality.

                      and i think that takes more intentional effort now than it used to.

                      because the effortless default now is just: hand them a device, let them figure it all out themselves from scratch. and then tell them off for making the wrong choice.

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                      • myrmepropagandistF myrmepropagandist

                        I've had people hear this idea scoff saying "teens will never use it" I don't think this is true. They ALL come to the dances, even though they are "so boring" -- and I think at some level they would feel better having a safer place to express themselves in photos, videos and writing for each other without every creep on the internet looking in on it.

                        Will some teens still find internet "after parties" Yes.

                        But right now we are basically saying you can go to the afterparty or NOTHING.

                        5/5

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                        I want to thank some of you for your comments on this post that have made me realize a few things:

                        1. When talking about "social media intranets for teens" I need to make it clear I'm NOT talking about anonymous networks. Just like with school email it's one account per person.
                        2. I should probably define the difference between internet and intranet as well.
                        3. I'm going to hear "can't do it legal reasons*" over and over and should be ready with the big guns for THAT one.

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                        • myrmepropagandistF myrmepropagandist

                          I want to thank some of you for your comments on this post that have made me realize a few things:

                          1. When talking about "social media intranets for teens" I need to make it clear I'm NOT talking about anonymous networks. Just like with school email it's one account per person.
                          2. I should probably define the difference between internet and intranet as well.
                          3. I'm going to hear "can't do it legal reasons*" over and over and should be ready with the big guns for THAT one.

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                          * It's something you pick up if you work in a big organization. Even the most innocent seeming ideas can be shot down for "legal reasons" --I think it can be very counterproductive to internalize this notion if you aren't a lawyer. Let the lawyers raise the "legal reasons" ... we don't live in some kind of paralyzed time when nothing can be done.

                          If "field trips" didn't exist I'm certian the first person to propose them would hear "can't go on a trip for legal reasons"

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                            * It's something you pick up if you work in a big organization. Even the most innocent seeming ideas can be shot down for "legal reasons" --I think it can be very counterproductive to internalize this notion if you aren't a lawyer. Let the lawyers raise the "legal reasons" ... we don't live in some kind of paralyzed time when nothing can be done.

                            If "field trips" didn't exist I'm certian the first person to propose them would hear "can't go on a trip for legal reasons"

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                            And, using the field trip example again, there *are* legal implications to taking students on a trip. That's why we have permission slips.

                            Legal reasons are surmountable if you are doing something reasonable.

                            Don't abandon your idea before you even try it because thinking about the "legal implications" is complex.

                            In the case of having a student intranet I think there are basically ZERO legal implications since everything the network would do already exists in a school.

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