#stardewvalley is ****judging**** me with this quest.
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Problem is, there are women (people of every gender) who care about the value of gifts, who look at relationships in that transactional way and through no other perspectives. I couldn't convince this guy he was embarking on a life where these would be the only kind of women he'd meet.
But, then, he *was* also the guy who said my advice about women didn't count because I was "basically a man because you know too much math"
CMU was kind of a toxic place looking back.
Sounds like he was already defining strict criteria on who counts as a "real" woman.
With that kind of mental sorting mechanism, he will of course only meet women who reinforce his conviction.
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Sounds like he was already defining strict criteria on who counts as a "real" woman.
With that kind of mental sorting mechanism, he will of course only meet women who reinforce his conviction.
I was curious so I checked... and it seems he's still single and grumpy. Which would be fine except all he ever talked about was "finding a good wife" ... IDK. what do we do to boys to make them this way? I think they correctly perceive they have been given a set of rules where happiness is impossible.
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I took me too long to realize that the terror and preemptive exhaustion I'd feel when my mom wanted me to go to some event was mostly down to HER not doing a great job telling me who anyone was.
Now I just say "sure I'll go! But who will be there?" and have her take out her phone and SHOW me who all the people are.
I didn't realize that my mom (and many people tbh) think that if THEY know who someone is you do too.
This makes everyone much happier.
@futurebird @clarfonthey My wife has a habit similar to this: If she explains something to a man (like her brother, or my brother, or my father, etc.) she assumes that she's also explained it *to me* and that I'll know what's going on.
Of course, she disputes this. I know, because my brother told me.
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#stardewvalley is ****judging**** me with this quest.
"Everyone will like you a little more"
What exactly are you implying with this.
@futurebird Never had this Quest, is it from a Mod?
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@futurebird Never had this Quest, is it from a Mod?
@svenja No it’s vanilla!
